If you’re ever going to enjoy the following three necessities of a satisfying life then you must decide to take control of the grief process and determine its endpoint. You’re going to have to decide when to put and end to your grief.

As the smoke clears after the movie theater massacre in Aurora, Colorado on July 20th, a familiar and disturbing picture of the alleged shooter has emerged. Like his large scale predecessors in Littleton, Colorado and at Virginia Tech, this shooter evinces classic signs of preject syndrome: a surprising public demonstration