Are you leading, or just being pushed around? Marriage is like a dance; someone has to lead, and someone has to follow. Which are you doing?
Many men lead, but not effectively. Are you leading your wife and relationship into destruction? You were born destined to lead effectively, but most aren’t aware of that destiny and don’t ever step into or achieve their destiny. Most fall woefully short.
Leaders, by definition, do the hard things first. In this must-hear audio program for married men and those considering it, Earl Middleton, a leading husband for more than 20 years, spells out in detail what those hard things are in six full-length teachings.
When you lead effectively, the results are health, wealth, wisdom, power and love. Your wife can be who she was meant to be (the help fit for you) when you are who you were meant to be (an effective leader). And your children can be who they were meant to be (shining expressions of the best in you) when you are who you were meant to be (an effective parental leader).
Righteousness exalts a nation, literally, by making the people in the nation brighter and causing them to rise to greatness, because a righteous leader will provoke growth in the people under him. So, when the righteous come to power, people come to their potential. This is spiritual law, like sunshine on the grass. When the wicked come to power, people hide. They shrink from greatness. They underperform. Why? When there is no sun the grass gets yellow and dies. That’s why when there is a change of leadership, often you see gifts surface in people that you never knew they had. The best thing for the GDP of a nation is to have a righteous ruler. Check the number of nobel prize laureates under each president and it will tell you something about their righteousness (the balance between their words and their actions).
